For A Better Us

March 24, 2023

Member Spotlight: Shantel Davis

The YMCA Saved Our Lives

By: Shantel Davis, First Coast YMCA Member and Board Member, Metropolitan Board of Directors

Could you jump into a pool to save someone’s life? In the deep end? What if it was your child? That’s a scary thought, but it’s a nightmare I lived through when my daughter was five years old. Had both of us not learned how to swim at the YMCA, she might not be alive today. 

It was clear from a young age McKinley was a fish. She took swim lessons at the YMCA when she was two years old and loved it. It’s so important to get your kids in the water early so they develop critical skills that’ll last a lifetime.

That was never more evident than the day she got stuck in a neighborhood pool. She was maneuvering her body to try and free herself, but she was trapped. There was no lifeguard on-duty, so I jumped in and pulled my daughter out. She wasn’t breathing, so I administered CPR and was able to revive her before taking her to Baptist Medical Center, where Dr. Neeraj Neval, Neocritical Care ICU Medical Director took over.

I remember sitting in the emergency department, soaking wet, wondering what would happen next. I knew my daughter would survive, but would she be afraid of the water for the rest of her life? I didn’t have to wait long to find out.

About a month later, our neighbors asked us if we wanted to go the Williams Family YMCA to watch their kids take swim lessons. I immediately tensed up. I remember thinking the only way my daughter was going to be around a pool again was if we sold our house and bought one with a pool so we could constantly keep an eye on her. Reluctantly, I agreed to go with our neighbors and McKinley came too. 

I’ll never forget that car ride. She initially stared quietly out the window but then spoke up. 

“Do I have to get in the water?” she asked. 

“No, of course not,” I replied.

A few minutes passed.

“If I just want to put my feet in, can I?” she said. 

“Yes, if you want,” I answered.

We eventually got to the pool and after watching her friends go through their class, McKinley stood up and said, “I’m ready.” 

When she jumped in, I immediately started crying and thanking God for seeing us through this.

My brave little girl, who I had to bring back to life just a month prior, fearlessly got back in the water and started swimming like nothing had happened.

It’s incredible to witness the heart of a child but in that moment, it was just as moving to see the heart of everyone at the pool. As soon as McKinley started swimming, they all started to applaud and cheer. They didn’t know our story and what she had been through. Rather, they were cheering simply because that’s what the Y family is about – we support one another to live healthy and fulfilling lives. I’ve never felt more supported at the Y than I did that day.

Because we live in Florida, we’re almost always around water. Still, there are a surprising number of adults and children who don’t know how to swim. If that’s you or your child, please reach out to your local Y and sign up for lessons. If it’s important for your child to breathe, it should be just as important for them to learn how to swim. I know what it’s like to see my child not breathing, but because she and I both know how to swim, she’s alive today and enjoying the water, like every kid should.

The YMCA Saved Our Lives By: Shantel Davis, First Coast YMCA Member and Board Member, Metropolitan Board of Directors Could you jump into a pool to save someone’s life? In the deep end? What if it was your child? That’s a scary thought, but it’s a nightmare I lived through…


February 24, 2023

Member Spotlight: Richard Robinson

Personal Training Through Life’s Ups and Downs

As an avid athlete participating in half marathons and endurance bike riding, Richard Robinson has always led an active lifestyle. Looking for a place to maintain his fitness, he and his wife joined the First Coast YMCA. Richard would come to the Y about once a week for a spin class while his wife could’ve been described as a “gym rat”, working out about 5-6 times a week. That is until she unexpectedly passed away in March 2022.

Grieving from a tragic loss and looking to fill his time after retirement, Richard returned to the First Coast YMCA two months later. However, he needed something different. He needed professional guidance and someone who was going to push him physically and give him an outlet to process his trauma. After assessing Rich’s situation, Director of Community Integrated Health Programs Connie Smith paired him with personal trainer Shelley Zawatsky.

“What Rich was looking for was for an individual that would help propel him to do the races,” said Connie. “But he was also looking for someone who would push him since he is pushed all the time.” Shelley did not hold back. With 17 years of experience as a personal trainer, she knew how to challenge Richard with full body workouts, while keeping him accountable to continue his sessions. Shelley used Richard’s athletic background as motivation for his upcoming races to train him with a goal in mind.

Because of these training sessions, Richard found a place that became his community and gave him not only a place to exercise, but a place to create friendships. Making the YMCA part of his routine helped him feel like he used to.

Ready to be back on the bike, Richard embarked on the Three Rivers Ride in St. Marys, Georgia. After completing the 62-mile race, Richard was celebrating with friends and fellow racers, including Connie Smith, when the unexpected happened. Instead of enjoying a well- earned beverage, he was being rushed to Baptist Medical Center after suffering a stroke.

Thankfully, Connie had recognized the symptoms of a stroke early enough and Richard was treated quickly while enduring minimal physical damage.

The stroke didn’t stop him, and Richard didn’t want all of his hard work to go to waste. After only four weeks, he was already back training with Shelley. “He has done better than I could ever imagine,” she said. “All we did was lower the weights, but the workouts were the same.” Through these ups and downs of life, the sessions continued to give Richard the need for consistency to help him feel back to where he was pre-stroke. “I’m still a slow runner though,” he joked.

No matter what is going on in your life, the First Coast YMCA will be there if you are ready to train and put the work in. The Y will meet you at wherever you are physically and push you toward your goals. Richard is back to running and biking, and even led a pacing group in the 2023 DONNA Half Marathon.

Richard’s athletic background made him a great candidate to continue with Shelley on his road to recovery through personal training. However, his case is not the same as for all stroke survivors. Those looking for recovery through physical activity should consider the Stroke Wellness program partnered with Brooks Rehabilitation. Individuals can participate in this program as long as they need to with the goal to restore strength, endurance and agility. Learn more about this and other adaptable wellness programs here.

Personal Training Through Life’s Ups and Downs As an avid athlete participating in half marathons and endurance bike riding, Richard Robinson has always led an active lifestyle. Looking for a place to maintain his fitness, he and his wife joined the First Coast YMCA. Richard would come to the Y…


May 4, 2022

Thank You, Teachers

Like the Y, schools are places that connect and engage and inspire a brighter tomorrow. We applaud all of our educators and school employees on the First Coast.

Thank you.

To show our gratitude, every teacher and school employee in Northeast Florida gets FREE access to any First Coast YMCA the entire month of May.
Plus – all teachers and school employees are eligible for these specials when they join the Y:

  • NO JOINING FEE – Save up to $100!
  • Monthly Discount on Membership Dues*

This is just a small way that we’re able to give back to those who give so much.

The Y offers programming and activities for all ages, interests and abilities including group exercise classes, virtual fitness, chronic disease prevention, nutrition, swimming, basketball, pickleball, camp, before and afterschool child care, volunteer opportunities and so much more.

We’re here to help our neighbors focus on what matters most: their health, their family and friends, and their community.

Join online today or, for more information, please contact your local Y.

*Monthly discount good for as long as the membership remains active and in good standing. Discount may vary by county. Contact your local Y for more information.

Like the Y, schools are places that connect and engage and inspire a brighter tomorrow. We applaud all of our educators and school employees on the First Coast. Thank you. To show our gratitude, every teacher and school employee in Northeast Florida gets FREE access to any First Coast YMCA…


April 12, 2022

Know. See. Respond.

April is Child Abuse Prevention Month! As part of the Y’s commitment to protecting the children in our community, we’re joining youth serving organizations across the country by participating in the Five Days of Action—a week-long campaign to increase awareness of child sexual abuse and empower and equip us all to prevent it. By taking part in this important campaign and through implementing abuse prevention practices year-round, the Y is committing to the safety of all children in our community.

The Five Days of Action enforces critically important habits — KNOW. SEE. RESPOND. — which enable us to understand how and when abuse happens, recognize the signs of abuse, and quickly and appropriately respond to it. When we embrace these habits, we foster a culture of child abuse prevention—a culture of happy and healthy children!

We take our commitment to child protection seriously and we hope you do too. Make your commitment alongside us today. Learn more about protecting the children you love at www.fivedaysofaction.org.

Resources

Five Days of Action is an initiative of the YMCA Champions for Child Protection created and designed by Darkness to Light, with support from YMCA of the USA, The Redwoods Foundation, The American Camp Association, and the Monique Burr Foundation for Children.

April is Child Abuse Prevention Month! As part of the Y’s commitment to protecting the children in our community, we’re joining youth serving organizations across the country by participating in the Five Days of Action—a week-long campaign to increase awareness of child sexual abuse and empower and equip us all…


February 14, 2022

Mindful Eating – Reconnecting with Food

What is Mindful Eating?

Mindfulness is rooted in bringing full awareness and attention to the present moment. Mindful eating is based on the same principles, just with food. Mindful eating is all about paying attention to the food you are eating like taking in the appearance, texture, flavors, and even the preparation process if you are cooking your meal. And on top of that, it’s also a judgement-free zone. Mindful eating helps reconnect with our own innate wisdom about hunger and satiety. Being more engaged with what you are eating can lead to less mindless munching and can help you navigate and pick more fulfilling options throughout your day. Mindful eating helps us slow down, check in with our needs, and make empowering decisions when it comes to our meals and snacks.

Benefits of Mindful Eating

  • Increased awareness of how food makes you feel during and after a meal
  • Better understanding of which foods you enjoy and which ones you dislike
  • Increased enjoyment and satisfaction from food
  • Better understanding of your motivations for eating
  • Increased appreciation and gratefulness for your food
  • Increased ability to cope with non-physical reasons for eating
  • Decreased feelings of guilt and shame around food

Tips on Starting Your Mindful Eating Journey

1. Check in while you’re eating

  • Try the ‘first bite, mid-way bite, and last bite’ approach
  • At each check in, consider checking in on how rushed you’re feeling.
  • What are your hunger cues – are you eating to nourish or for comfort, or both?
  • What does the food taste and feel like?
  • How the food makes you feel emotionally and physically?

2. Limit distractions when eating

  • Avoid doing work, watching TV, or scrolling through your phone while eating. The major goal of mindful eating is focusing on all the aspects and feelings associated with eating. It can be difficult to be fully engaged when your attention is divided.

3. Remember it is a judgement free mindset

  • Eating mindfully is challenging in our fast-paced society and it can be nearly impossible to slow down at every eating opportunity and practice mindfulness.
  • Remember to have compassion for yourself and that this is not an “all or nothing” approach. Try eating mindfully at one meal or snack to start, and build momentum with each successful mindful meal or snack. With nearly anything, practice makes perfect! The more you practice mindful eating, the easier it will become.

Written By: Katie Painter, RDN
kpainter@fcymca.org


References:

https://www.thecenterformindfuleating.org/
https://www.health.harvard.edu/staying-healthy/8-steps-to-mindful-eating

What is Mindful Eating? Mindfulness is rooted in bringing full awareness and attention to the present moment. Mindful eating is based on the same principles, just with food. Mindful eating is all about paying attention to the food you are eating like taking in the appearance, texture, flavors, and even…


January 5, 2022

22 Tips for a Healthier YOU in 2022

Each year, we wrestle with setting resolutions for a better New Year. An effective and healthier way to approach New Year’s resolutions is to consider small lifestyle changes that reflect healthy living instead of setting a general resolution such as “eat healthier,” “lose weight,” or “workout more.”

Take your pick of the 22 tips below to set yourself (and your family) up for a successful and healthier you in 2022!

  1. Move More: Commit to 20 minutes of movement a day.
  2. Quality Sleep: Try reading a book, listening to a podcast, or meditating to help get restful sleep.
  3. Drink MORE Water: Generally speaking, men should drink 3.7 liters a day and women, 2.7 liters a day. Of course this will vary based on your size, needs and level of physical activity.
  4. Incorporate Fluids + Fiber: Prevents constipation, helps lower cholesterol, improves blood sugar levels and helps keep you fuller longer.
  5. Don’t “Diet:” Restrictive diets may cause changes in your hunger and satiety hormones, which may also cause stronger cravings for high caloric and sugary foods.
  6. Incorporate Healthier Options: Instead of “dieting,” identify new foods to incorporate into your diet that are healthy, fulfilling, and have added benefits. The MIND diet recommends including whole grains, leafy greens, berries, nuts, beans, colorful vegetables, wine, fish, lean poultry and olive oil in your diet.
  7. Change It Up: Instead of sandwiches for lunch, try making grain or legume bowls like a MexiCali bowl or Mediterranean Bowl, which incorporates fresh veggies, healthy grains and protein.
  8. Try a Seaweed Salad: Seaweed is rich in antioxidants like carotenoids and flavonoids, which are known to combat disease-causing free-radicals.
  9. Try Plant-based Proteins: Protein-rich foods include tofu, tempeh, edamame, lentils, chickpeas, peanuts, quinoa, chia seeds, hemp seeds and beans.
  10. Ask About Available Alternatives: Dairy-based sauces can be swapped out for alternatives made with cashews, which are a nutritional powerhouse nut packed with protein, monounsaturated fat, iron and magnesium.
  11. Lessen Alcohol: Eliminating alcohol intake all together has proven to provide better sleep, weight loss, reduced risk of certain cancers and diseases.
  12. Spice It Up: Spices not only add flavor to your food, but many, like ginger, turmeric, cinnamon and sage, offer health benefits too!
  13. Supplement: Collagen is the new supplement to consider adding to your diet if you’re looking for some added protein and joint health benefits. It’s easy to add in to your coffee or smoothies each morning.
  14. Add Oats: Increase your whole grain consumption and fiber intake by adding oats to your smoothies.
  15. Allulose: A new, natural alternative sweetener that tastes like table sugar. Allulose is a monosaccharide absorbed by the body but not metabolized. It is around 1/10 of the calories compared to table sugar and is considered diabetes-friendly.
  16. Mindful Cooking Methods: How you cook your food affects the overall nutrition consumed. Healthy cooking methods include: steaming, stir-frying, roasting, poaching, blanching and grilling.
  17. Make Your Sweets Count: Switch out milk chocolate for dark, which is high in antioxidants. Or try turning to fruit-based desserts to satisfy your sweet tooth.
  18. Get Your Gut Health In Check: There is a direct correlation between our gastrointestinal system and the brain. Foods for better brain function include: nuts and seeds, coconut, fatty fish, dark chocolate and fermented foods.
  19. Focus on the Positive: A positive mindset will help you feel more at ease and appreciate all the good around you.
  20. Mood-Booster Foods: Try “happy brain” snacks to boost serotonin and dopamine. Probiotic-rich yogurt with berries or a trail mix with cashews and dried tart cherries make for great snacks.
  21. Know Your Numbers: Don’t forget to schedule physicals and regular checkups with your healthcare provider to stay informed of your current health.
  22. Join the YMCA! We are here to help you make 2022 your best year yet! We support individuals and families by offering a holistic wellness experience that fits your personal goals, lifestyle, needs and preferences. Whether that means a gym with childcare availability, a variety of group fitness classes, personal training, team sports, access to state-of-the art equipment, pools, tennis courts and more, the Y is here to help. We also offer healthy living programs that cater to specific needs such as weight loss, blood pressure monitoring, diabetes, cancer support and adaptive wellness to name a few. See a list of our healthy living offerings by clicking here. Some are complimentary services and open to the public. Just ask us how we can help!

Each year, we wrestle with setting resolutions for a better New Year. An effective and healthier way to approach New Year’s resolutions is to consider small lifestyle changes that reflect healthy living instead of setting a general resolution such as “eat healthier,” “lose weight,” or “workout more.” Take your pick…


December 14, 2021

How to Recover from that “Blah” Feeling

Recently you may have heard the term languishing. It’s that kind of “blah” feeling. Maybe you remember a time when you felt unmotivated, stagnant, not sad, but not-happy-either feeling. That is languishing and more and more people are expressing this feeling.

Languishing, What Is It?

The word languish means to fail to advance or make progress; the failure to be successful.  Think of a project that you put off or something you placed on the self that has just been sitting there. That’s languish. It’s a real valid emotion that may affect how you function in the world.

According to PyschCentral here are some signs:

  • Moods that are not too high or too low (you’re not happy, but you wouldn’t say you’re sad either)
  • Feeling unmotivated more often than usual
  • Feeling unsettled but not highly anxious
  • Difficulty focusing on certain tasks, especially some days more than others
  • Feeling detached from life, tasks, or people but not experiencing negative emotions toward them
  • Apathy toward life and difficulty getting excited about anything
  • Fatigue and burnout
  • Loss of interest in passions and hobbies
  • Feelings of stagnation
  • Feeling disconnected from your purpose in life

It’s extremely important to note that not everyone who is languishing will experience it in the same way or with the same intensity. In general, languishing may affect some of your decisions, behaviors, and emotions toward yourself, others, and the world.

How to Thrive in Languish

Now that we know what languishing is, how can we live to thrive or flourish instead?

In an article written on VeryWellHealth.com researchers Corey Keyes, PhD & Matthew Iasiello, MA look at mental health as multi dimensional.  That life satisfaction – a sense of earning, interactions with society & positive relationships – are all concepts that are tied to our sense of mental well-being.

So what can we do? Here are a few practices to consider:

  • Mindfulness. Mindfulness involves intense focus and awareness of what you’re sensing and feeling, moment by moment, without judgment. It has been shown to help people relax and reduce stress.
  • Physical well-being.  Moving our body for enjoyment, eating nutrient dense food, and allowing our body to have plenty of quality sleep are important for both physical and mental well-being.
  • Journaling. The practice of keeping a journal can help you express your thoughts and see patterns in daily behavior. It can also be a space to focus on what you’re grateful for and what positive moments happened during your day. It may even help you identify signs of languishing early.
  • Be creative. Exploring your creative side can help engage your mind and encourage focus in other areas of your life. Identifying a hobby that brings you joy can help to release your mind when it is feeling stressed. Many studies have shown that art therapy also helps to explore emotions without having to verbalize them.
  • Maintain relationships. Languishing may make you want to shy away from social settings and isolate yourself. Keeping in touch with community, family and friends can be an important part of feeling connected and can help you feel supported.
  • Change of scenery. Sometimes your environment may influence how you feel. A change of scenery could come in the form of time away for vacation, a walk outside, or heading to your favorite quiet spot to read a book. Maybe you need to switch up the environment of your daily routine. If you feel that your home or work environment may be contributing to languishing, try decluttering, changing the color of the walls, adding artwork, rearranging furniture, switching your workspace to a new room, or adding some fresh flowers or plants. As you introduce these small changes, notice how they affect how you feel.
  • Volunteer for community service.  Socialization can be an important part of mental wellness for some people. Providing your community with a service, such as working at a food pantry, may not only help you feel connected to a higher purpose, but also improve the lives of people in your community.
  • Learn new skills. Learning something new affects your brain and also helps you improve focus. It may even help you feel motivated and establish small goals that could build up a sense of accomplishment. This, in turn, could improve how you feel. Try out a new recipe, practice sewing, tend to your garden, pick up an instrument, learn to woodwork, the list goes on and on.
  • Seek professional help. If you feel you’re doing a few things but your mood doesn’t improve, consider reaching out to a mental health professional.

While anyone can use any of the practices above in any setting. Here are a few more to consider at the workplace with your colleagues and managers:

  • Set clear goals and responsibilities for team members that you all agree on.
  • Inquire about flexibility in work schedules.
  • Ask for resources available to you as an employee.
  • Give praise and acknowledgement to others.
  • Be clear on how you like to receive constructive feedback, praise, and acknowledgement.

Taking the time to put these practices in place can take some time. Have grace and patience for yourself and those you are working with.


The Y is here for you. Talk with us to let us know what you are searching for and what you would like to accomplish as you venture on your well-being journey. And be sure to check out our resource page and programs to see what services we have to offer you. If there is something you are looking for but don’t see, please let us know.

Recently you may have heard the term languishing. It’s that kind of “blah” feeling. Maybe you remember a time when you felt unmotivated, stagnant, not sad, but not-happy-either feeling. That is languishing and more and more people are expressing this feeling. Languishing, What Is It? The word languish means to fail…


December 10, 2021

Resiliency – Overcoming & Growing from Setbacks

We all face setbacks in our life. The term resilience (or resiliency) is our ability to adapt and bounce back when things may not go exactly as we had planned. Some of us may appear as if we handle those situations with more grace than others. We may even find ourselves admiring those who are resilient, wishing we could be too. What is important to know is that resilience isn’t necessarily a personality trait that only some people possess. Rather resiliency involves behaviors, thoughts, and actions that anyone can learn and develop. This post is to help you learn more about resiliency and how you too, have the grace of resiliency living in you.

What is Resilience?

Psychologists define resilience as the process of adapting well in the face of adversity, trauma, tragedy, threats, or significant sources of stress—such as family and relationship problems, serious health problems, or workplace and financial stressors. As much as resilience involves “bouncing back” from these difficult experiences, it can also involve profound personal growth.

Those with high resilience may not spend a lot of time dwelling on the failure or set back; they acknowledge the situation, learn from their mistakes, and move forward. Being resilient doesn’t mean that a person won’t experience difficulty or distress. People who have suffered major adversity or trauma in their lives commonly experience emotional pain and stress. In fact, the road to resilience is likely to involve considerable emotional distress.

According to the research of psychologist, Susan Kobasa, there are three elements that are essential to resilience.  You can find her full quote and descriptions in an article on www.mindtools.com:

  1. View Difficulty as a Challenge – People who are resilient look at their failures and mistakes as lessons to be learned from, and as opportunities for growth, not as a negative reflection on their abilities or self-worth.
  2. Commitment & Purpose – Those who are resilient are committed to their lives and their goals, and feel they have purpose and a compelling reason to get out of bed in the morning. They commit to their relationships, their friendships, the causes they care about, their religious or spiritual beliefs, and to their work.
  3. Personal Control – Resilient people spend their time and energy focusing on situations and events that they have control over. Because they put their efforts where they can have the most impact, they feel empowered and confident.

10 Ways to Build Your Resilience

The good news is you can learn to develop a resilient mindset and attitude.  Here are some ways to incorporate some resilient behaviors into your daily life:

  1. Learn to relax. When you take care of your mind and body, you’re better able to cope effectively with challenges in your life. Develop a good sleep routine, try out a new exercise or use physical relaxation techniques, like deep breathing or meditation.
  2. Practice thought awareness. Resilient people don’t let negative thoughts derail their efforts. Instead, they consistently practice positive thinking. This means listening to how you talk to yourself when something goes wrong – if you find yourself making statements that are permanent, pervasive or personalized, correct these thoughts in your mind.
  3. Edit your outlook. Practice cognitive restructuring to change the way that you think about negative situations and bad events.
  4. Learn from your mistakes and failures. Every mistake has the power to teach you something important, so look for the lesson in every situation. Also, make sure that you understand the idea of “post-traumatic growth” – often people find that crisis situations, such as a job loss or the breakdown of a relationship, allow them to re-evaluate their lives and make positive changes.
  5. Choose your response. Remember, we all experience bad days and we all go through our share of crises. But we have a choice in how we respond: we can choose to react with panic and negativity, or we can choose to remain calm and logical to find a solution. Your reaction is always up to you.
  6. Maintain perspective. Resilient people understand that, although a situation or crisis may seem overwhelming in the moment, it may not make that much of an impact over the long-term. Try to avoid blowing events out of proportion.
  7. Set some goals for yourself. If you don’t already, learn to set SMART, effective personal goals that match your values, and that can help you to learn from your experiences.
  8. Build your self-confidence. Remember, resilient people are confident that they’re going to succeed eventually, despite the setbacks or stresses that they might be facing. This belief in themselves also enables them to take risks: when you develop confidence and a strong sense of self, you have the strength to keep moving forward, and to take the risks you need to get ahead.
  9. Develop strong relationships. People who have strong connections at work are more resistant to stress, and they’re happier in their role. This also goes for your personal life: the more real friendships you develop, the more resilient you’re going to be, because you have a strong support network to fall back on. (Remember that treating people with compassion and empathy is very important here.)
  10. Be flexible. Resilient people understand that things change, and that carefully-made plans may, occasionally, need to be amended or scrapped.

Building your resilience takes time and practice, like anything else. The Y is here for you on this journey.  Please check out our listing of local resources available as well as give our Y VirtuWell Coaches a call to help you set and establish SMART goals that fit your health priorities.

We all face setbacks in our life. The term resilience (or resiliency) is our ability to adapt and bounce back when things may not go exactly as we had planned. Some of us may appear as if we handle those situations with more grace than others. We may even find ourselves…


December 2, 2021

We’re Better Together – Benefits of Eating Meals Together

Busy lives and schedules are more common than ever these days and finding ways to save time is at the forefront of nearly everyone’s mind. Skipping family mealtimes might sound like the right answer but 30 years of research says differently. Family mealtimes spent together not only have social benefits, but they also have long-term mental and emotional benefits that positively affect children and adults of all ages. Let’s find a seat at the dinner table and start reaping the benefits of sharing a meal with your family!

Benefits of Eating Family Dinners Together

Academic Achievement

  • Studies have shown that preschoolers learned 1,000 more rare words during dinner conversations compared to the 143 words they might be exposed to through reading aloud. And kids who have a larger vocabulary read earlier and more easily.
  • For school-age children, eating together is a more powerful predictor of high achievement scores than time spent at school, doing homework, playing sports, or doing art.
  • Teens who ate family meals 5 to 7 times per week were twice as likely to get A’s in school compared to those who only ate two or fewer meals together.

Lowered High-Risk Behavior

  • Family dinners have been found to be a more powerful deterrent against high-risk teen behaviors than church attendance or good grades. Eating meals together lowers their risk of substance abuse, teen pregnancy, and even the likelihood of developing eating disorders.

Mental and Social Health Benefits

  • Eating together is a clear marker of increased mental and social health. It increases self-esteem and resiliency in children and teens and decreases their risk of depression. With anxiety and depression being seen and noted more frequently in children across all age groups, eating meals together is a simple and effective way to curb those risks.
  • In a New Zealand study, the higher frequency of meals was strongly associated with positive moods in adolescents. Other research has shown shared meals can lead to a more positive outlook of the future compared to their peers who do not eat with their parents.

The bottom line?

We understand that mealtime looks different for all families. But sharing a meal together is more than just physically eating together – it provides great opportunities to build and strengthen the relationships between all family members. The power of family mealtime lies in its interpersonal quality – creating a warm, open environment conducive to sharing stories is the key to building stronger, longer-lasting relationships that grow past the dinner table. So, as long as these moments are created within your family, however it fits into your schedule and whatever it looks like for you, the experience can be transformational for everyone involved. So, pull up a chair and get ready to share.

 

Written By: Katie Painter, RDN

kpainter@fcymca.org


References:

https://www.stanfordchildrens.org/en/topic/default?id=why-the-family-meal-is-important-1-701

https://thefamilydinnerproject.org/

https://theconversation.com/science-says-eat-with-your-kids-34573

Busy lives and schedules are more common than ever these days and finding ways to save time is at the forefront of nearly everyone’s mind. Skipping family mealtimes might sound like the right answer but 30 years of research says differently. Family mealtimes spent together not only have social benefits,…


November 22, 2021

Recipe: Butternut Squash and Turkey Chili

Butternut Squash, among other root vegetables are in season this time of year. You can use ground turkey as specified, or add leftover Thanksgiving turkey at the end of the recipe. Try adding some radish as a garnish for an added crunch and a bit more spice.


Butternut Squash and Turkey Chili

Prep/Cook Time:  1 hour          Serves: 6

Nutrition Information:

PER SERVING SIZE
Calories: 310     Protein: 22g     Carbohydrates: 31g  (Fiber: 10g)     Fats:12

Ingredients:

  • 3 teaspoons olive oil 
  • 1 pound 99 percent fat-free ground turkey 
  • 1 medium onion, diced 
  • cloves garlic, minced 
  • 1/4 cup chili powder 
  • 1 tablespoon ground cumin 
  • 2 teaspoons ground coriander 
  • 3 tablespoons tomato paste 
  • Kosher salt 
  • 1 small butternut squash, peeled, seeded and cut into 1/2inch cubes (about 3 1/2 cups) ** 
  • ripe plum tomatoes, chopped 
  • Two 14-ounce cans black beans, drained and rinse
  • 1/4 cup chia seeds 
  • Freshly ground black pepper 
  • 1/4 cup fresh cilantro leaves, chopped 
  • 1/4 cup reduced-fat sour cream 

Instructions:

  1. Heat 1 1/2 teaspoons of the oil over medium-high heat in a large Dutch oven.
  2. Add the turkey and cook, breaking up chunks with the side of a wooden spoon, until browned, about 5 minutes. Push the turkey to the edges of the pan, leaving the middle empty.  
  3. Reduce the heat to medium and add the remaining 1 1/2 teaspoons oil, then the onion and garlic to the center of the pan. Cook, stirring occasionally, until the vegetables start to soften, about 3 minutes.  
  4. Add the chili powder, cumin and coriander and stir about 30 seconds.
  5. Add the tomato paste and 1 teaspoon salt and stir until the paste begins to darken in color, about 30 seconds.
  6. Add the squash**, tomatoes and 4 cups water, scraping the bottom of the pan to release any stuck bits.  
  7. Bring to a simmer, adjust the heat and simmer, uncovered, until the chili has thickened and the squash is tender, 35 to 40 minutes.** 
  8. Stir the beans and chia seeds into chili and heat through, about 5 minutes. Season with salt and pepper to taste.
  9. Spoon chili into bowls and top with cilantro and a dollop of sour cream. 

**To decrease time of cooking- cook butternut squash in a microwave safe bowl with ½ inch of water covered in plastic wrap. Microwave 5-7 minutes until tender. Add squash to chili. You can also chop or pull leftover Thanksgiving turkey and add to finished chili until heated through.

Butternut Squash, among other root vegetables are in season this time of year. You can use ground turkey as specified, or add leftover Thanksgiving turkey at the end of the recipe. Try adding some radish as a garnish for an added crunch and a bit more spice. Butternut Squash and…